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      <description>Let&apos;s discuss black (African American, Afro-Latino, African) oriented issues, news, celebrities, health, crime, education, unpopular opinion, etc, and yes, random thoughts.  Quick rules : 1) If you type in 1st or first, 2nd, 3rd etc. the post will be deleted. 2) At minimum, try to keep it clean and respectful. 3) ALL CAPS &amp; ThIs TyPe posts may be deleted. 4) It&apos;s okay to disagree, but personal malicious attacks are not cool...enjoy! Send your questions to weneedtostop{at}maildotcom. Please don&apos;t post them on the blog. They most likely will be deleted. Spell check is not pfrecte...lol, and neither am I. Anyone can post. However, the majority of the entries will have a black culturally themed focus. Guest authors are welcome. Send news, announcements, and stories by email. Comments have been enabled again...working on an anti-spam solution -- Pat  



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How brave are you?  Would you jump in water to wrestle a crocodile to save your spouse's life? Be honest.  Or would you run looking for a stick, piece of rope, or any object to extend out to her so you can pull her from the water?  Are you the type whose first instinct is to go running for help?

She suffered hand and leg wounds and over 40 stitches.  Wendy Petherick is indebted to her husband, Norm, for life.  What a brave soul.  <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23925625/"target="_blank">READ MORE...</a>  <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ku2QQ8_BJzQ"target="_blank">WATCH VIDEO</a>]]></description>
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         <title>70 year old enrolls in 1st Grade</title>
         <description><![CDATA[Hey, it's never too late.  So many people need to start over that it is not funny. In addition to that, schools need to abolish social promotion.  If a kid isn't up to par, they need to stop passing them to the next grade.  Political correctness is out of control, and has been for too long.

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         <title>Judge criticized for ordering white lawyers out of courtroom</title>
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         <title>Naomi Campbell Arrested Again</title>
         <description><![CDATA[Campbell was arrested at London's Heathrow Airport for allegedly assaulting a police officer.

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         <title>Survey: Fla. Teens Believe Drinking Bleach Will Prevent HIV</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image"><img alt="1mountaindew.jpg" src="http://www.weneedtostop.com/1mountaindew.jpg" width="84" height="203" class="mt-image-right" style="float: right; margin: 0 0 20px 20px;"/></span><span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image"><img alt="1bleachbottle.jpg" src="http://www.weneedtostop.com/1bleachbottle.jpg" width="107" height="153" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;"/></span>The survey also revealed teens believe drinking Mountain Dew will prevent pregnancies.  Do they have sex education classes in the schools?  What about the parents?  This ignorant thinking has prompted lawmakers to advocate for an overhaul in sex education in the state.   <a href="http://www.local6.com/news/15773787/detail.html"target="_blank">READ MORE...</a> 
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         <title>We have created human-animal embryos already, say British team</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<strong>Right now, I just think this is unethical.  Here is the story (link below), and one of the Times readers in favor of this type of research writes.  :</strong>

<em>"I find it funny that people call this kind of research "Monsterous" etc. etc. It just proves that you are narrow minded and have little to no understanding of biochemistry and your views are narrow minded. Did you read the article? It clearly states that all that is used from the animal cell is the cytoplasm. There is next to zero genetic material in a cytoplasm. As it states, clearly again, 99.9% of this hybrid (maybe it is that word you "don't like") is hum,an genetic material. 

if I were to look at the chemical composition on an animal cell and then get the raw chemicals, shimmy them up from start and then put a human nucleoid into this man-made cytoplasm, would you be barking? Sure, it is the exact same thing, but it just came about by a different process. 

The fact of the matter is people clearly don't understand the scientific background and start whining about frankinstein. Sorry, no. It is really ignorant to simply write this research off. Suggestion: Read a book!"</em>---Michael, London, 


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<a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/article3663033.ece">UK Times Online Article</a>]]></description>
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         <title>Oprah dedicates show to her late dog, Sophie</title>
         <description><![CDATA["<strong>Sophie gave me 13 years of unconditional love. She was a true love in my life," says Oprah.</strong>  


Great timing on this story, because about a two weeks ago I was driving behind this huge BMV early in the morning down a long country road, and the entire rear window had a "Lost Dog" advertisement on the back instructing anyone who encountered this dog named "Henry" to call the police (number was posted) or to contact the owner.  I thought to myself, d*&^^ covering up an entire window, what ever happened to the lost and found section in the newspaper.  So we have to drive about 5 minutes down this road to get to the next traffic light, and the light on a pole on the driver side I noticed this enormous "Lost Dog" poster and who do I see...the yellow labs picture, Henry.  The possible owner was in front of me at the stop light.   

Fast forward ahead.  Two days ago, someone reading the local section of the Boston Globe newspaper asked me, with an expression of total disbelief on her face- "Did you see this story about this dog?"  I did not even see the story, but before I looked at the article, I said,  "Is it about a dog named Henry?"  I was just taking a wild guess.  She said, "YES.  $300 DOLLARS AN HOUR?!."  So I grabbed the paper to see what she was talking about, and it was about that owner and the lost dog Henry on the main page on the local section.  

Apparently, they paid for $300/hr helicopter to search for that dog, offered a $5000 reward, enlisted the help of others to perform searches, only later to find out the dog was on their premises all that time.  It had drowned in a pool behind their home. The dog had become famous, as everyone was out looking for him.  It was a sad ending, but an interesting sidenote to the story is how technology has enabled people to organize searches and seek the aide of others (including total strangers) to help them find lost animals.  This includes text message alerts, creating websites, etc.

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I don't know about Henry or the owner's relationship with the dog, putting aside the stories above, it seems as if so many pets are over socialized to a point that they don't know they are not humans.  It is not their fault, as people insist upon treating them as if they are humans.  We had an elderly neighbor back in the early 90s who called her dog "daughter."  The dog had its own bedroom in the house and whenever it misbehaved, she'd yell at the dog, "Shut up! Go to your room!"  It threw me for a loop the first time I heard it.

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<a href="http://www.missinghenry.com"target="_blank">www.missinghenry.com</a>
<a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080402/ap_en_tv/people_winfrey"target="_blank">Winfrey dedicates show to her late dog </a>]]></description>
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         <title>Selena has been gone for 13 years?  Has it been that long?</title>
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Slain beautiful, talented Tejano singer Selena Quintanilla-Perez, was a rising star before she was murdered by the president of her fan club, and the portrayal of her by Jennifer Lopez catapulted Lopez's career and put Jenny on the main, mainstream radar.  I love and have all of her music, and she was destined for more than she experienced in the short life she lived.

<strong>Selena - Bidi Bidi Bom Bom Live</strong>

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<a href="http://www.newsweek.com/id/129905"target="_blank">Newsweek:  Tejano Lives</a>

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         <title>Killing for FUN</title>
         <description><![CDATA[Just listening to the story of the Georgia third graders who plotted to kill their teacher.  Reports are they planned to harm her, because she scolded one of them for standing on a chair.

What has happened to American society?  How can we change this, and why is the average person numb to this sort of news, until it hits home?  We collectively, have an indifferent "not my problem" syndrome which is a major part of the problem.    <a href="http://www.newsweek.com/id/129995"target="_blank">READ MORE...</a>]]></description>
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         <title>A &quot;Typical&quot; Black Person</title>
         <description>Just a play on Obama&apos;s words, and I know providing comments makes for broad generalizations, but do you feel there is a typical black person, if so, what is or would your description be of one?</description>
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         <title>Sealing the Sacred Bonds of Holy Matrimony</title>
         <description><![CDATA[To a large segment of our population, marriage doesn't seem to matter any more, and I am not totally sure why this is so.  Here is a marriage certificate from two former slaves who were determined to make their union legal. Their children are also listed on the certificate.  I'll bet they saved and scraped to come up with marriage fees, if they were applicable back then, and today, we have so many excuses for not getting married.  Yes, I know, I know, marriage isn't for everyone.

<strong>Benjamin Manson and Sarah White marriage certificate dated April 19, 1866.</strong>  <a href="http://www.archives.gov/publications/prologue/2005/spring/freedman-marriage-recs.html"target="_blank">READ MORE...</a>

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Freedmen's Bureau Marriage Records

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         <pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 18:52:47 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Alicia Myers - I Want To Thank You</title>
         <description><![CDATA[Classic tune here...

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         <pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 18:42:40 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Are You A Racist?</title>
         <description><![CDATA[Could you talk about race in an open forum such as on film or would you only be willing to talk about racial issues, in private, amongst people with whom are most close to your culture and ethnicity?

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         <title>CPR is getting easier</title>
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Even if you haven't had any training you can still save a life.  The American Heart Association says some chest compressions (by an untrained person) are better than no compressions at all, with placing less emphasis on rescue breathing except in the case of children.  If you don't know CPR and don't plan on taking a course, watch this video to have a basic idea of how to perform chest compressions.  The chest compressions shown on this video are for adults.

So basically, if someone collapses and has no pulse remember to first call 911, then begin chest compressions until help arrives.  CPR saves lives.  How many of us know CPR?

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<a href="http://handsonlycpr.eisenberginc.com/"target="_blank">Hands-Only CPR</a>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 17:08:51 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Pilot makes Army discrimination claims</title>
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Here is an excerpt of a copy of a discrimination complaint letter that I received from a person who says he is an African-American U.S. Army pilot.  In the letter, he alleges racial discrimination in the Army, particularly in the Aviation unit.  I returned an email back to the Army address on the letter, and received a response, so I will assume it is a genuine complaint from the person who replied listed in the file.

Read the letters addressed to Senator McCain, Senator Hillary Clinton, and the President(which does not have the President’s name on it).  It is just addressed as the “President.”  I do not know what to tell bruh, on an individual basis alone, it is hard to take on any large entity, let alone the U.S. government.  This subject matter doesn’t get the media excited unless a powerful name is somehow entangled in these allegations.  This sounds like stories <em>60 Minutes </em>used to cover.  

And I guess I am naive when it comes to the military, because I have most often heard, color does not matter much in the military, especially when you are out there on the battlefield.  All for one, one for all, however, I have never served in the U.S. Armed Services, therefore, I don't have first hand experience.  

<big><strong>The link to the letters is above the image.  I have to ponder on this one and will add more comments later.  Anyone care to comment?  </strong></big>


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