Do You REALLY Need A Man Right NOW???

I just left Essence.com to check out their “60 Do Right Men” campaign since I heard on the radio this morning that they were listing 60 ballin’ eligible bachelors many of whom are millionaires with email address listings. Curiosity brought me there.

This action seems unprecedented, as I cannot recall the last time when a magazine has gone so far as to leave email addresses of eligible black bachelors wide open for spam. I must admit I am not in the market for a man, but the fact that the radio personality announced that email addresses were listed…well, I had to see for my own eyes.

The whole think just wreaks of a publicity front…LOL j/k in a mild sense.
I mean videos, photos, quizzes, polls and voting, again I am not buying the hype. Now they know good and dAAyum well their email boxes will be flooded with thousands and thousands of gold digger inquiries. Their(diggers) chances are a little bit better than winning the Publishers’ Clearing House Sweepstakes, but it does seem like a fun concept. Fun for them, Essence, that is…LOL to read all of those “I can’t believe she wrote this,” or see “I can’t believe she sent this” photos.

Imagine the screening process. Probably ninety percent of the emails or potential matches will not make it through their screening process. Women can be dummies at times.

Sometimes it seems as if we are always looking for a man or cannot live without one. What about a grace period? Take time off for self. Enjoy the freedom of tending to self. If you are one of those ladies who might be thinking about sending an email and you just got out of a relationship, are getting out of one, or have not been in one for at least a year, you should re-consider. Take some time to learn something new, travel, strengthen yourself spiritually, financially, and emotionally…

I only write this, because I know hundreds, if not thousands of women who in their current state aren’t relationship material, could use a makeover, and should not be sending emails to anyone (trying to start a new relationship). They will soon be composing their matchmaking marketing letter and pressing that send button, in hopes of getting a response from one of the sixty. Ladies take a second breath. It is not such a bad idea to pass on this one.

Reference: Essence.com
Url: Essence Do Right Men